MY DAUGHTER, LOVE YOURSELF

Has no one told you they love you? Love yourself.

Has no one cheered you on? Cheer yourself, be the best and biggest cheerleader then work for yourself.

Has no one told you how beautiful you are?
You are so beautiful, made in the likeness of God but unless you are sure from the insides of you, you will listen to people who do not know better.

MY DAUGHTER! MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT STOP YOUR LIFE

Do not lose yourself dear.
I tell you, it is very easy to lose yourself or let time pass too quickly that before you realise it is too late.
1. Get an education, get more education, pursue a career if that is what you want (If I raised you, you can never be content being a house wife.)
2. Get a husband who dreams like you, who fulfiling your dreams will fulfil his.

MY DAUGHTER, THE MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP YOU NEED TO BUILD

Hello dear daughter,
The most important gift I hope to give you will be relationship with God.
The next important gift I hope God helps me give you is the best education. Cherish it!
If no one gives it to you, please feel free to get them for yourself. They are the most important things in life my dear.

Love you,
Pearl.

MY DAUGHTER, DO NOT BURN THE BRIDGE THAT LEADS YOU HOME

I will keep this very short.
Never burn the bridge that will lead you home.
Never be coerced to neglect family.
Never be so busy you neglect family.

MY DAUGHTER, THE VAGINA IS NOT A 'NATURAL RESOURCE'

Mama, as I fondly call you. If you have a sister, I may call her Ah-girl if nothing more weird comes to mind.

There is no natural resource in the female genitals so there is no need to try to make a fortune from it. You will never be able to make great sustainable wealth through the use of the vagina.

MY DAUGHTER GET RID OF BATS

While you are becoming the best version of yourself, most people see it and understand that you are 'on a roll' and headed to the top.

NEVER BE AFRAID TO STAND ALONE

Let me tell you a story about a time in my senior secondary school F. G. G. C. Benin, when students will cheat, some by asking others in the examination hall; other by hiding their notes on them and using the notes.

MY DAUGTER, BE ACCOUNTABLE

A wise person once said ''Be afraid of anyone who is not accountable to anyone and anything".

MY DAUGTER, FIND YOURSELF!

I know of a lot of people who never really lived their lives, never really lived for themselves.
These people had their major decisions and lives planned out by someone else either directly or indirectly.

MY DAUGHTER, SHATTER THE GLASS CEILING

My first encounter with the phrase 'shatter the glass ceiling' was at the immediate past U. S. Presidential race (yes, H. Clinton Vs D. Trump). The phrase in my opinion has to do with breaking boundaries and human created limitations.

New in! Series alert, My daughter...

I can't believe it took me so long to get around to blogging... More like it took me 2 years to figure out motherhood and focus a bit on me.

I am excited it's happening nonetheless, we are back and better. Motherhood is wonderful once you figure it out and it broadens your horizon.

I present to you a new series of blog posts and hope you get to follow me through it. So let's get on to our usual business shall we?

The next ten posts (you know how we do it. Just incase you don't, please visit my previous posts to find out) will be tagged MY DAUGTER, BE THE MAN! and it is dedicated to my daughter as well as females everywhere.

Love,
PEARL