HOW TO MAKE FAMILY CHEER LEADING SQUAD ONE

Hello,

A successful woman remembers that she would prefer the presence of both her parents and her partner's attention at all times and know it is the same way (or to a different degree) her kids, wards and partner will prefer to have her time, input and attention in their lives. It is often better to have your family (Nuclear and extended to some degree) satisfied and prevent them from turning into clogs in your wheel of progress.

EVERY WOMAN WHO WANTS TO BE SUCCESSFUL SHOULD STUDY MEMBERS OF HER FAMILY AND ASSESS THEIR NEEDS AND PLAN TO MEET THEM TO A REASONABLE EXTENT.

Human needs are as varied as there are humans therefore the need to assess and not assume only your presence is sufficient for your family. for example, A daughter may feel loved when you give time to weave her hair and do her assignment yet another loves their space and just wants toys as an expression of your love.
A partner may require sympathy from you when they share their stories but another may need quality meals deliberately prepared to express love, yet another would love respect and if you respect him will support your success while another would love his partner home before seven in the evening.
Do you have that aunt who always wants you to call frequently. If only you had taken the time to study her, you will realise that she did not want the money you sent to her but would gladly have used it to purchase 10 calls from you.

Taking the time to assess and ask family what makes them feel loved or satisfied is key because it saves you time, energies that will otherwise be spent on misunderstandings and helps you plan properly to succeed.

Generally people tend to employ the following strategies in satisfying family:
1. Everyday create time to review children and ward's outdoor activities including school
2. Create a family activity regularly
3. Create periodic partner time
4. Surprise with gifts and the likes
5. Contact all extended family members at least once a month.
Whatever you choose to do as regards satisfying family, remember you need to assess every individual member of your family so you create tailor made responses that enable you satisfy them and show your love and care for them.

Ermm, I am still learning to get it right myself but if you start and get the results from assessing the individual members of your family, it will only be a matter of time before you ease into it and gain cheerleaders for life (or a really long time).

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PEARL